Sandra is like a cat that has nine lives. There are so many chapters of this story we had to share it over two episodes.Sandra grew up as Peter and through his life he was many things: He became a father, a husband, a woman, a drag artist, a prostitute, a drug addict, a law abiding citizen, a married woman, one of Melbourne's high society, a business owner, a widow and a trauma cleaner.As you can imagine this is a hell of a ride. It is a story that has a lot of explicit and adult content.It is almost unbelievable that one person can fit so much into one lifetime but she did and it's fascinating.Content warning: this episode deals with prostitution, drugs and abuse. If you are suffering or are triggered by the themes of this podcast, help services are available.For free and confidential advice about alcohol and other drugs, call the National Alcohol and Other Drug Hotline 1800 250 015Lifeline 13 11 141800RESPECT is the national sexual assault, domestic and family violence counselling serviceIf you want more Sandra you can:Buy her book: The Trauma CleanerVisit her websiteFollow her on InstagramCredits:Joanne Helder - Audio ProducerCaleb Jacobs - Sound and MusicAJ Davis - Comms ManagerPlease DM us your thoughts and burning questions to @whatsthedeep or head to zoemarshall.com/thedeep.The deep is a place for you. If you love it please subscribe and leave us a rating or comment if that tickles your fancy.The Deep acknowledge the Traditional Custodians of the land on which we work and live, and recognise their continuing connection to land, water and community. We pay respect to Elders past, present and emerging. Join the community and go 'deeper' with Zoe to gain access to exclusive bonus episodes, early access and ad free listening to regular episodes and extra juicy content from Zoe. Join our holiday event at thedeep.com.au/pages/events https://plus.acast.com/s/the-deep. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.