Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   Signs that you are emotionally unavailable include engaging in defense mechanisms that are clearly disconnecting:  Being on the cell phone when you are on a date or in a conversation, getting high and being emotionally unavailable because you are in an altered state, lacking empathy for the needs of others, are just some signs of emotional unavailability.   Today we discussed that the root cause of emotional unavailability is rooted in childhood wounds and family systems gone wrong. When we are hurt we tend to shut down and withdraw because we associate people and relationships with pain.   Thanks to those of you who called in and shared their "disconnects."   We Shrunk That Tune - "I Can't Make You Love Me" By -  Adele