Small gestures of kindness can ripple out in ways that connect us, improve our well-being, and bring profound meaning to our lives. In this episode of 1,000 Waking Minutes, Dr. Wendy Bazilian dives into the power of everyday kindness—greetings, smiles, and thoughtful acts that brighten someone’s day while strengthening our collective bonds.

You’ll hear heartwarming stories, scientific insights, and practical tips to weave more kindness into your daily life. From a cheerful school custodian to profound research on the physiological and psychological benefits of kindness, this episode will leave you inspired to spend some of your 1,000 waking minutes making a difference.

Tune in to discover how small gestures can change the course of a day—for you and someone else.

FROM THE EPISODE:

"Isn’t it amazing how something as simple as sharing a smile or saying ‘Good morning’ can change the entire course of a day—for someone else and for you?"

WE DISCUSS:

(1:10) Small gestures that have a big impact on connection

(5:32) Personal stories: A school custodian, a childhood teacher, and simple greetings

(14:22) The science behind kindness: How it enhances happiness, health, and even attractiveness

(22:56) A Mindful Minute: Using breath to set an intention for kindness

(28:24) Practical ways to bring more kindness into your 1,000 waking minutes

(35:45) A question to ponder and reflect on 

(36:04) Closing remarks and gratitude to my team and you for joining me on this journey

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Health Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and should not be considered individual medical or health advice. Always consult with your trusted healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, exercise, or medical treatment.

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Nelson-Coffey, S. K., Fritz, M. M., Lyubomirsky, S., & Cole, S. W. (2017). Kindness in the blood: A randomized controlled trial of the gene regulatory impact of prosocial behavior. Psychoneuroendocrinology, 81, 8–13. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.psyneuen.2017.03.025

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