This episode was a lot of fun. Terry Real brings the heat for women and men using what he calls “fierce intimacy.” While this episode is for both men and women, it is largely geared toward women who are with a guy who’s not fully on board. He has some great advice for women, while at the same time challenges men to develop their relationship skills. I know you’ll dig this one.

SHOWNOTES:

• Beginning of interview [4:30]
• Terry shares how he came to be interested in relationship work [5:00]
• What is “fierce intimacy”? [7:20]
• The difference between a good man and a great man [12:30]
• Advice for young millennial men [15:00]
• What Terry says to women who are frustrated with their men [19:30]
• A lot of men who wont do the work for themselves or for the marriage, will get it and rise to the occasion for the sake of… [23:00]
• 3 key steps for women to work with their shutdown men (this is very good) [26:00]
• Should women reward their man’s effort with sex? [32:45]
• The design flaw in the way most therapists do therapy [40:10]
• Parting comments [50:15]