Needing approval is tantamount to saying, ‘Your view of me is more important than my own opinion of myself’– Dr Wayne W. Dyer. The problem is they can change their ideas at anytime, will you change for that also? How can we be okay with who we are and our ideas and also with others ideas and how they are or how they look?
We can't have peace without saying to ourselves, my opinion is right and your opinion is right... what is my opinion of my, of you? Do you share your approval of others, of yourself? Let's explore, it can all be very confusing let's discuss! IN the end it's all about how I want to feel.