In this Q&A episode, there were so many great questions. See the show notes below for a detailed line-up.

SHOWNOTES

• How can I train myself to not go to an extreme dark place when I’m triggered by my partner? [4:30]
• A tool for calming yourself down. [6:00]
• What’s the best way to balance individual freedom in a relationship to avoid power struggles?  [6:45]
• How to know when to stay in a relationship and when to leave? [9:30]
• Why is my husband not desiring me and initiating physical intimacy and passion? [11:45]
• My boyfriend surfs porn, a LOT. Is this normal? Should I break up with him? [17:30]
• Should I move back in with my ex? How do I know if he’s forgiving me? [22:00]
• My partner says he’s not sure if he still has feelings for his ex. What should I do? [25:00]
• My old boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for eight years, currently off for a year. What’s the best way to get back together? [27:45]
• The best way to date someone with a mental illness? When do you know if the struggle is too much if they’re not doing the work to get better? [29:45]
• Someone challenges Jayson on saying “I’m sorry.” [32:15]
• How do I get my boyfriend to communicate more often and more openly? [34:15]
• What’s the best way to apply your communication tools with children? Is it the same as with a romantic partner? [35:15]
• What do you think about when someone says “I’m sorry you feel that way”? [38:15]
• Should our partner be our “best friend”? [39:30]
• How do I navigate my fear of enmeshment with my partner’s fear of abandonment? [40:15]
• Jayson’s powerful action step for this episode. [43:00]