What does the apostle Paul mean in Philippians 2:4 when he says, “Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others?” How do we apply that to marriage, and to relationships in a blended family?In this podcast episode, Ron Deal talks with Brian Goins, author of Playing Hurt, A Guy’s Strategy for a Winning Marriage, about taking care of our own needs and always being mindful of the needs of our spouse. Goins explains that marriage is about finding the motivation and resolve to stay in the game despite the pain and calls husbands to be the heroes they long to be--men who play hurt in order to win at marriage. Show Notes and Resources  Small Group Searchable Map  Email us for your chance to win a signed copy of The Mindful Marriage. blended@familylife.com Get your copy of The Mindful Marriage  The Mindful Marriage Conference  Register for Blended & Blessed    See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy