Many of us are quick to offer help to others but struggle when it comes to asking for help ourselves. Why is that? As Christians, we are known for our generosity and willingness to assist those in need. However, when it’s our turn to seek help, we often hesitate. Let’s explore why that is—and why asking for help is not only okay but also glorifies God.The Reluctance to Ask for HelpChurches frequently establish benevolence funds to support members going through financial hardships. Most of us gladly contribute to these funds, eager to help those in need. But when the tables turn, and we are the ones facing difficulties, we often resist seeking assistance.One common reason is that we don't want to burden others. Many of us would rather go without—sometimes even at the expense of our families—than impose on someone else. However, the Bible challenges this mindset. Galatians 6:2 reminds us to “Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” God's design for us is not self-sufficiency but a supportive Christian community where burdens are shared.Another reason we shy away from asking for help is the fear of appearing weak or vulnerable. We convince ourselves that no one can or wants to help us. Yet, this reluctance can sometimes stem from pride. Proverbs 11:2 warns, “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.”Asking for help—especially financial help—requires humility. It can be difficult to admit mistakes or acknowledge needs, but it’s an opportunity for growth. Whether our difficulties arise from poor decisions or unforeseen circumstances, God can use them to shape our character and deepen our dependence on Him.Biblical Examples of Receiving HelpEven the Apostle Paul, a pillar of faith, received financial support for his ministry. In Philippians 4:19, he expresses gratitude, saying, “And this same God who takes care of me will supply all of your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus.”Furthermore, Jesus Himself accepted help from others. Luke 8:1-3 tells us that Mary Magdalene, Joanna, and Susanna provided financial support for His ministry. If the Son of God was willing to receive help, shouldn't we be willing to do the same?If you find yourself in need, start by sharing your situation with your church community. Even if no one within the church can help directly, they might know someone who can. The Body of Christ is a vast network of believers who are ready and willing to offer support in various ways.Seeking help not only benefits you but also provides others with an opportunity to fulfill their calling to generosity. When we withhold our needs, we deny them the blessing of giving.Asking for Help Glorifies GodThe ultimate reason to ask for help? It glorifies God. In 2 Corinthians 12:9, Paul writes, “For when I am weak, then I am strong.” Acknowledgi