Signs and symptoms of narcissistic abuse. The most obvious sign is that you feel absolutely drained psychologically, emotionally, physically, even financially drained. The key to helping you to stop the drainage is to heal thyself. If you want to make sure that you don't pass the psycho virus to the next generation, heal thyself so that you can give your next generation a better blueprint. Narcissistic abuse abounds and people who are people pleasers and more likely than others to get embroiled in such relationships. If you get to the root cause of why you even selected to be in these relationships, you will be able to foolproof yourself against future narcissistic relationships and heal the wounds that created your hole in the soul that led you into these systems gone wrong.