RePlay: GITRMM ep 25- Analysis Paralysis: How Over-Strategizing Is Sabotaging You and Your Love Life!

Episode • Sep 15, 2022 • 35m

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

What does over-strategizing look like? How does it show up in ways you may not have thought about or noticed?
Dating feels so stressful! How can I have fun and actually enjoy myself?
How to make your texting more friendly and less urgent and needy.
The less you strategize, the better you can weed out the avoidants and only put energy into those who match your interest and values.
What does it feel like to a man when women over-strategize?
Why is dating multiple people so important before deciding to go exclusive with a man?
Yes, men can truly feel both authentic trust, safety, and friendship. AND they can feel when you are overthinking and trying to control/steer the ship.

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The Rules

Quotes:

“We create these stories just out of thin air, and you know, it’s crazy making.” - Benjamin
“I think a lot of women are looking for a picture to put into a picture frame, rather than seeing the person.” - Benjamin
“One of the concerns that a guy has in dating is that they’re going to be controlled, so their radar is up.” - Benjamin
“It takes a lot of personal risk and a willingness to fully open yourself up to another person and to really surrender to the process.” - Lisa
“What we found is that by combining our lives, we've actually gained greater autonomy and a greater sense of ourselves in doing so, because we're reflected back by the other person. By combining our lives, we've actually gained.” - Benjamin
“Dating multiple people is so important because you begin to see who shows up.” - Benjamin
“I stopped trying to get a guy to like me. I just wanted to feel good about myself and I showed up in those situations feeling proud that I had portrayed the best example of me.” - Lisa

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