Dating your best friend’s ex, boss/employee relationships, celebrities and fans, dating with a huge age gap - there are so many relationships that are considered forbidden and taboo. We hear from you on what it’s like to date someone you feel like you have to hide.

CW: discussion of domestic violence.If this episode brings anything up for you, help is available: 1800 RESPECT

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