We live in a culture that is sexually obese. Sex comes at us from every angle and many have fallen prey to the world defining their sexual experience rather than God who created sex in the first place. The world has deceived people into thinking that sex can only be appreciated when adrenalized meaning when there is a risky, taboo or vile component associated with it. This is devastating for marriages as they can only be sustained through connected sex which is about valuing the other person rather than objectifying them.
Proverbs 5:15-19 Drink water from your own cistern And fresh water from your own well. Should your springs be dispersed abroad, streams of water in the streets? Let them be yours alone and not for strangers with you. Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth. As a loving hind and a graceful doe, let her breasts satisfy you at all times;Be exhilarated always with her love.