Today's podcast delves into stage three of the coming out process, focusing on identity and orientation tolerance. This stage is crucial as individuals begin to realize they are not alone and actively seek out supportive communities, such as LGBTQ social groups and safe online spaces. Host Heather Hester emphasizes the importance of understanding these stages to better support children and loved ones navigating their identities. She also highlights the potential challenges, such as living a double life, and the need for healthy coping mechanisms. As always, the episode encourages open communication and understanding, reminding listeners that they are not alone on this journey.

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At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ+ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and foster courageous, compassionate connection.

If you’re in the thick of parenting, allyship, or pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heart-warming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in—I see you. And I’m so glad you’re part of this journey.

Takeaways:

• Stage three of the coming out process is about seeking community support and connection.
• Understanding the stages of coming out helps parents better support their LGBTQ children.
• Creating safe spaces for LGBTQ youth is crucial for their emotional well-being and growth.
• Parents should encourage open conversations with their children about their feelings and identities.
• Being aware of the challenges of a double life can help parents provide essential support.
• Engaging with community resources can empower parents and their LGBTQ children through the coming out journey.

More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen explores connection, courage, and community for every concerned parent, mom, or ally navigating fear, grief, and bigotry with hope, resilience, and empathy. Through open-minded education, inclusive parenting guidance, and advocacy for mental health and safety, we support LGBTQ youth and stand for human rights and social justice. More Human. More Kind. empowers listeners to shift their mindset, embrace activism and allyship, and lead with kindness, healing, and purpose.

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