#95 | How Somatic Education Builds Courage and Connection for Parents Raising LGBTQ Kids
In a compelling episode of Just Breathe, Court Vox engages the hosts in a candid exploration of sexuality and intimacy, emphasizing the vital role these elements play in our overall wellness. The conversation begins with Vox recounting his personal journey into the field of sex education and intimacy consulting, revealing how his early experiences with sexuality were shaped by an open and accepting household. This background allowed him to develop a unique perspective on the importance of body acceptance and the exploration of desires in a judgment-free environment. The hosts and Vox discuss the ongoing stigma surrounding sexual topics, highlighting how traditional therapeutic approaches often overlook the significance of physical connection and somatic practices in fostering self-acceptance and intimacy.
As the discussion progresses, the trio delves into the idea of pleasure as an essential aspect of mental health, encouraging listeners to embrace their sexuality as a natural and fulfilling part of life. Vox articulates the concept of somatic education as a means to reconnect individuals with their bodies, facilitating a deeper understanding of their desires and boundaries. This approach not only aids in personal growth but also enhances relationships with partners and friends, promoting a culture of consent and communication. The episode serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of open dialogue about sexuality, encouraging listeners to confront their own beliefs and biases while fostering a greater understanding of diverse sexual identities.
Towards the end of the episode, the conversation shifts to the experiences of parents navigating the complexities of raising LGBTQ children. Vox emphasizes the critical need for parents to create supportive and safe environments that allow for open conversations about sexuality and identity. He advocates for a shift in perspective, suggesting that coming out does not have to be a monumental event but rather an organic part of living one’s truth. By promoting acceptance and understanding, parents can help their children thrive in their identities. The episode concludes on a hopeful note, reminding listeners that the journey toward embracing one’s sexuality and identity is both personal and shared, filled with opportunities for growth, healing, and connection.
Takeaways:
- Court Vox emphasizes the importance of bodily autonomy and self-exploration in understanding sexuality.
- The conversation around sex is often shrouded in shame, yet it’s critical for wellness.
- Creating a safe space for individuals to explore their sexual identities is essential.
- Somatic education focuses on body-based experiences, promoting healing through touch and awareness.
- Parents should prioritize their own self-care to effectively support their children’s journeys.
- The discussion of gender should evolve to encompass a spectrum rather than a binary.
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About our Guest:
Court Vox is a Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach Surrogate Partner Intern, and Sacred Intimate based in Los Angeles CA . He is a member of the World Association of Sex Coaches, Founder of The Bodyvox, and Co-Founder of SQUIRM. He is a guide for a vast spectrum of individuals and those in relationship/s seeking more in their erotic and intimate lives. When it comes to human connection and sexuality, some are beginning their journey while others have been pursuing erotic education and experiences for years. Court works gently with first-timers, as well as offers uncommon experiences to some of the world's most well known sex educators and change-makers across multiple fields and disciplines. Court has become known for offering private, highly customized, exclusive experiences and travels extensively hosting and teaching workshops for all bodies, genders, and orientations. Court is also part of an elite team of sex educators that create the celebrated program for women, Back to the Body, which runs retreats all across the globe.
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