The difference between neediness and needs. Neediness comes from being empty and seems to never to be truly fulfilled, it controls us and we struggle to try to desperately 'get our neediness filled. Needs are what we might need on a daily basis, for like food and shelter.
Neediness has a struggle and desperation. Unless we have access to the oneness, wholeness, completeness within, it's have to move beyond neediness. Being connected to the wholeness within we fill ourselves and that is one the only real way to fulfilneediness.