Matthew 27:34-401. Loving ourselves means learning not to settle-To whom have you given the power to decide how you should be loved? 2. Loving ourselves moves us from duty to desire3. Loving ourselves mean we move from roles to responsibilityRoles in our family system…The Air Traffic Controller The Accountant The Noble Martyr The Fixer The Sheriff The Enabler The Narcissist The Ghost The Little Girl/BoyThe BullyThe ComedianThe PeacekeeperThe Problem ChildThe ScapegoatThe Good Boy/GirlThe Helper4. Loving yourself means you begin to regard yourselfRegard means “to have or show respect or concern for.” -regard….…..resentment…..…reward behavior