In marriages where one or both partners are unhappy, divorce is a very real consideration. But imagine that you sit down with a divorce attorney, tell her you and your spouse argue all the time and can’t see eye to eye, and after nodding quietly, she gives you the following advice: before you split, take inventory. Sound unconventional? This is the advice from divorce attorney Toni Nieuwhof, who, along with her husband, pastor-turned-leader-coach Carey Nieuwhof, has seen many couples walk through marital trouble and divorce. Whether you’re walking through a tough season in your marriage or are currently contemplating divorce, this is a podcast episode that can encourage you and create fresh motivation to nurture your relationship with your spouse.     Guests: Toni and Carey Nieuwhof     Book: Before You Split by Toni Nieuwhof Blog: How Do I Know If I'm in an Abusive Relationship? Java with Juli: #466 Enough is Enough: Recognizing and Combating Abusive Relationships Book: When Sorry Isn’t Enough by Gary Chapman and Jen Thomas Join us for Reclaim 2.0 Virtual Conference!