Writer Kerri Sackville and her partner Mike join Cam and Ali in the bathroom today — learn why we'll be inspecting the toothpaste tube once they leave! In her books, and as a columnist for the Sydney Morning Herald and The Age, Kerri has documented her journey through marriage, divorce and years of dating in mid-life. Her most recent book The Secret Life of You: How a bit of alone time can change your life, relationships, and maybe the world is about embracing solitude. But in learning to be content by herself, Kerri also found love. There's much to learn from Kerri and Mike's unconventional love story. Listen as they discuss dating in mid-life, the distinction between loneliness and solitude, why being single is better than being with the wrong person, and Kerri's quirky method of cutting bread. LINKS  Check out Kerri's books at www.kerrisackville.com.au/books See Kerri at the Sydney Writers Festival www.swf.org.au/writers/kerri-sackville Follow Kerri Sackville on Instagram @kerrisackville or on Facebook @kerri.sackville Check out the Mens Table themenstable.org Follow Cam on Instagram @camerondaddo Follow Ali on Instagram @alidaddo Follow Nova Podcasts @novapodcastsofficial.  Got a question for Cam & Ali? You can email them at separatebathrooms@novapodcasts.com.au. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.