From People Pleaser to Bold and Confident
In episode 22, Dani Tan, a leadership and career coach, discusses the topic of transitioning from being a people pleaser to being bold and confident. She explores the reasons why people tend to be people pleasers, such as societal conditioning and the desire to keep the peace. Dani also highlights the negative effects of people pleasing, such as difficulty expressing emotions and a sense of abandonment. She then provides strategies for building self-trust and becoming more bold and confident, including exercises to identify personal achievements and decisions that demonstrate self-trust. Dani emphasizes the importance of finding a balance between people-pleasing and prioritizing oneself. She concludes by introducing her Pivot and Promotion Community, a 12-month program designed to support women of color in career pivots, promotions, and leadership development.
Chapters
00:00 Understanding the Reasons Behind People Pleasing
05:24 The Negative Effects of People Pleasing
09:08 Building Self-Trust for Boldness and Confidence
12:57 Finding a Balance Between People Pleasing and Prioritizing Oneself
15:04 Introducing the Pivot and Promotion Community
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