对老师，对长辈的尊敬，是体现在平时的一言一行中的。像程门立雪这样的真实故事，不仅要多讲给孩子，还要让他们知道为什么要这样做，同时大人还得给孩子做榜样，长期坚持，你才能有一个在别人眼中有教养的孩子。

Respect for teachers and elders is reflected in the usual words and actions. True stories like Chengmen Lixue should not only be told to children more often, but also let them know why they should do so, and at the same time, adults have to set an example for their children.