This is a fun episode folk! 

There was a time not so long ago, about 7 months to be exact, that I was in a state of constantly fighting everything in front of me. You might think that fighting is likened to fists in the air and physical violence.  

Fighting can easily be linked to any degree of not accepting your current reality. So when my neighbor verbally attacked me and being single (how did she know this) in the hallway, it was a chance to choose a new way. 

It's possible to learn a new communication style (i.e. not fighting) and still stand in your power. I didn't get this for a long time. 

Fighting is a stance. A way of communicating. 

And like all stances and communication styles, they can change. 

Key points: 

• Anything that we resist, even in our minds, is a version of a fight.
• Avoidance is a fight, attacking is a fight. Anything that we are not able to accept fully is a version of fighting what is.
• Like the swan, meet things with absolute grace and elegance.
• Elegance comes from within, It comes from a stance and a posture.
• And more! 

As always, thank you for listening. You could be anywhere and you're here listening to me sing in a closet.  Thank you.  

-- Lalita

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