Send us a textWhat do you do if you can't/don't want to have intercourse, but other forms of sex are actually uncomfortable?Some Christian books tell women they should give sexual favors, because they're "simple" and take a "minimum of effort." Today Sheila Wray Gregoire and Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach from To Love, Honor and Vacuum look at the complete picture--what this should look like in a healthy relationship, and how to think about it if one of you actually is physically uncomfortable.Because, as always, sex is supposed to be MUTUAL.Some links mentioned in this podcast:All my Audio books--and the free book studies that go along with my books:https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/audio-books-free-video-studies-and-more/My Boost Your Libido course!https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/boost-libido-course/Our marital rape/consent/obligation sex podcast:https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/podcast-marital-rape-consent/And for more discussion on this podcast, check out the post that goes along with it!https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/podcast-when-oral-sex-manual-sex-hurtSupport the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.