That secret I was debating whether to share, and forgot to do just that yesterday. I think I've polished up how to express it so I don't come off in some kind of way you loathe me.  Genuine advice for Jennifer Lopez. I know who is right for her. What women aren't attracted to in men...according to at least several surely reliable people.  I don't think it's a sure win, but this feels like 2012 again, and I like it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.