On this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, Dave Hollis goes into incredible depth on the connections between failure, growth and fulfillment. While describing those connections he talks about his experiences with therapy, explains how he uses journaling so effectively, and even shares a few tips on marriage. This episode is brought to you by: Podcorn: Visit https://podcorn.com/brands/ and use coupon code IMPACTTHEORY Women of Impact Podcast hosted by Lisa Bilyeu: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-of-impact/id1435217865 Better Help: Get 10% off your first month at https://betterhelp.com/impacttheory Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/impact Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. SHOW NOTES: Dave explains why he still calls himself a skeptic [3:20] Dave admits that he had to get super-stuck in order to embrace self-help [4:58] Tom and Dave discuss the power of negative visualization [8:32] Motivation is built through consistent habits and constantly pushing yourself [12:15] Dave talks about how he finished a challenge he thought might be impossible [15:53] You must test the truth of the stories you’ve been told [19:54] None of us are broken, but we all have seasons of brokenness [20:53] Dave explains how he uses journaling to get down to the subconscious [23:38] Dave describes the reasons why therapy was so helpful for him [25:38] Are other people’s opinions real? Are they important? [27:41] Dave and Tom discuss the connection between growth. discomfort and fulfillment [29:42] It’s a guarantee in a startup that you are going to experience failure [36:15] Dave talks about how difficult it was to no longer be the primary bread-winner [39:00] Dave gives a few tips on marriage [44:14] Dave shares the impact he wants to have on the world [47:11] FOLLOW DAVE: WEBSITE: thehollisco.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2xthYFv FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/39HsqYc TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2IDklb0   BOOKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: “Get Out of Your Own Way”, Dave Hollis https://amzn.to/2UbB7DR [2:50] “Spark”, John Ratey https://amzn.to/38EY6fH [29:58]Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness. This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.Subscription Benefits: Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement Money Mindset: Business & Finance Relationship Theory: Relationships Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJazSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices