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#162 | How Nurturing a Mission With Love and Courage Shapes LGBTQ Ally Impact

More Human More Kind: Guidance for Parenting LGBTQ+ Teens & Growing Into a Courageous Ally
More Human More Kind: Guidance for Parenting LGBTQ+ Teens & Growing Into a Courageous Ally
Episode • May 17 • 6m

In the second week of reflecting on mothering, the host, Heather Hester, effectively shifts the paradigm from traditional notions of motherhood to a broader understanding of nurturing as a vital component of creativity and enterprise. The episode discusses the concept of 'mothering' as a metaphor for the care we extend not only to children but also to our aspirations, projects, and the various visions we seek to manifest in the world. Heather's personal narrative regarding the inception of Chrysalis Mama serves as a poignant illustration of this theme, as she shares the tumultuous yet rewarding journey of birthing an initiative that emerged from a place of urgent necessity and deep personal conviction. The process of nurturing ideas, akin to mothering, is framed as a journey characterized by uncertainty, vulnerability, and the imperative of sustained commitment amidst challenges.

Heather poignantly depicts the emotional and psychological landscapes navigated by those who undertake the task of 'mothering' their missions. She highlights the importance of resilience in the face of obstacles such as burnout and self-doubt, while also emphasizing the necessity of cultivating a deep connection to one's vision. By inviting listeners to contemplate their roles as nurturers of their respective missions, Heather fosters a sense of community and shared experience, thereby reinforcing the notion that the act of creation is both a solitary and collective endeavor. Ultimately, the episode champions the idea that embracing the creative process with tenderness and courage is essential, encouraging individuals to reflect on how their pursuits shape their identities and the impact they have on the world.

Takeaways:

  • The act of mothering encompasses nurturing not only children but also our creative endeavors and projects.
  • Engaging in the process of building a business necessitates a commitment to growth and resilience.
  • Mothering demands that we embrace uncertainty and discomfort while remaining dedicated to our missions.
  • It is essential to nurture our initiatives with love and patience, allowing them to evolve naturally.
  • One must reflect on whether they are nurturing their projects or allowing fear to dictate their actions.
  • Honoring the cycles of creativity and renewal is crucial for sustaining our passionate pursuits.

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At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ+ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and foster courageous, compassionate connection.

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More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen explores connection, courage, and community for every concerned parent, mom, or ally navigating fear, grief, and bigotry with hope, resilience, and empathy. Through open-minded education, inclusive parenting guidance, and advocacy for mental health and safety, we support LGBTQ youth and stand for human rights and social justice. More Human. More Kind. empowers listeners to shift their mindset, embrace activism and allyship, and lead with kindness, healing, and purpose.



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