Here’s a scenario: You and your partner had a fight or disagreement. You want to talk about it;  they don’t. Hmmm. How do you deal?  In this podcast, my wife Ellen and I give you a few tips for you avoidant-types on how to deal with your partner who always wants a connection or wants to talk about it.  Here’s a critical question I ask space-takers to think about:    Does withdrawing relieve my partner or not? In other words, is my space-taking helpful to my partner and good for our relationship?  Listen in as we unpack this question.   Shownotes: 0:50: Distancing in relationships 6:25 Establishing a time limit on the time you take for yourself 10:30 Action Step Useful Links: https://relationshipschool.com/training