Mental health and drug abuse continues to impact millions of people from all walks of life. Often drug abuse, trauma and depression are tied together and either mistreated or avoided. Families don’t necessarily know how to help loved ones come out of their dark place. In this episode, Coach Mike Bayer introduces several new concepts from his new book, One Decision. He takes Tom through his journey and reveals his experience with drug abuse, discovering his homosexuality, and what it took to get committed, find a new perspective and create his best self. Mike regularly appears on Dr. Phil, and has walked away from serving the entertainment industry to better serve people he connects with to guide them from discovering their trauma, surrendering, and making the one decision that will create a better life worth living. SHOW NOTES: One Decision | Coach Mike defines “One Decision” [1:34] Big Decision | One big decision [2:51] Perspective | Looking at life through the lens of your experiences [5:03] Trauma |Awareness of what you’re thinking and where you’re beginning [7:32]  Window | The moment of willingness and trusting the universe to be open for help [10:23] Surrender to Win | the idea of surrendering to a whole new way of life [15:31] Mike’s Window | Coach Mike shares his window of escape and experience [16:43] G.O.D. | Mike shares his take on good orally direction [20:46] Commitment | Mike share how he was able stay committed to sobriety [25:08] Mental Health & Drugs | Mike dives into mental health, drugs and who his book is for [29:25] The Shift | Mikes shares what it means to turn on someone’s light even in suffering [30:42] Best-Self | Mike talks about the constructed image of best self and self signaling [33:50] Anti-Self | Mike explains having people create the worst version of yourself [36:13] F.O.R.C.E. | Mike reveals the framework of the positive and negative force [38:12] O.O.O.O. | Mike connects the obstacles, opportunities, one decision and outcome [45:33] Become Your Own Vehicle | Mike share how became his own vehicle to make change [49:50] FOLLOW Mike Bayer: Website: https://coachmikebayer.com/ Check out our Sponsors Plant X: Get 15% off your first order with promo code IMPACT at plantx.com Joovv: Get an exclusive discount on your first order at Joovv.com/impact and use code IMPACT Tommy John: Get 20% OFF your FIRST ORDER at TommyJohn.com/IMPACT Skillshare: Explore your creativity at skillshare.com/impacttheory for a free trial of Premium Membership.  Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness. This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.Subscription Benefits: Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement Money Mindset: Business & Finance Relationship Theory: Relationships Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJazSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices