[Get Unblocked Series] “Maybe I don’t have what it takes to do this, since nothing seems to be working.” EP355
This thought process is why you aren’t making the big bucks…
You most likely wont like what I’m about to share, and your ego will try to argue with me, but I’m here to tell you the truth, not to enable you.
In my first five years of business, I felt like I was doing ALL THE THINGS, yet getting little in return for working my butt off. Everyone else seemed to have success more easily and quickly than me; I would beg the Universe to show me what I was doing wrong.
At a certain point I started to think that maybe I wasn’t meant to be an entrepreneur, and that I wasn’t smart enough. After I would wipe away the tears and drink a few glasses of wine, my stubborn ass would say, “well I just need to work harder, and do more.”
My truth felt like I was really doing everything in my power, but feelings are not facts. The things I was “missing” were in the actions I was resisting.
I was playing cheap with my dreams, yet expecting and wanting abundant results.
(the Universe doesn’t vibe this by the way)
Every week, I went to conferences, read blogs, networked on LinkedIn, even went to those terrible Chamber of Commerce breakfasts…worked 12-14 hours a day, 7 days a week. But I was trying to avoid spending any big money on my business, as that would mean I had less to show for all of my hard work.
So I avoided doing the big, scary, investments…then kept my self believing that I was doing all the things, by being busy with all of this draining crap.
There was some buried belief that I had to figure this out all on my own, and once I made more money I could hire top people to help me. I didn’t realize how insanely backwards and crazy my thinking was, until I was introduced to a man who later became my first coach.
One of his first questions to me was, “Who are the people helping you grow your business?” My reply, “Ummmmmmm me.” It was in that moment, it clicked, here this man who’s net worth was 100 million dollars, and he didn’t want to hear about all of the things I was doing, he wanted to know who was helping me get there faster.
Usually it’s the actions you are resisting that you need to take in order to get the results you want. The catch is, that shiz is risky, hard, and scary.
I would now argue, after having played out both sides, that it is far more painful to remain stuck, then it is to take the damn chance on yourself and your dreams.
This episode is designed to get you to take strategic actions that are aligned with your goals, instead of doing more crap that keep you spinning in place.
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