You know the expression, "time heals all wounds"? Well, when it comes to betrayal, studies show that time without the right kind of healing just leads to a life of repeated patterns, behaviors and even illness. Because, betrayal is not like other traumas, it's intentional and different experience in the body. In fact, many symptoms could be due to a lifetime of unhealed trauma from lies, cheat and deceit that have never been resolved. And even when we think we are healed, we often get stuck in the middle of the process, plant our roots and live our life on repeat until somewhere, down the line we're asking ourselves, "how does this keep happening" and "why do I still feel this way"? Dr. Debi Silber is a holistic psychologist and founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute and has made it her mission to take her clients from betrayal to breakthrough. Her process includes five very important stages. Including getting passed that middle mark that is so common and comforting, that it can easily become our new normal and keeps us from complete transformation. On this episode of HIListically Speaking, Dr. Debi will share more about the stages that move us from that place of distrust to a new relationship with ourselves and others, as we find our way from hardened to healed. Plus, she's offering you the opportunity to take her Post Betrayal Syndrome Quiz to find out where you are on your journey. And an added bonus! Grab a copy of Dr. Debi's "Trust Again" book bonuses. You can connect with Dr. Debi on all platforms: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn and YouTube And if you want to add another tool to your emotional wellbeing and healing tool box and learn more about how Havening Techniques can help you on your healing journey, set up a Complimentary Discovery Call with Hilary. Isn't it time to put the power of active emotional wellbeing back in your own hands. Change is a choice and it begins with the right support. Have a transformational story of your own? Want to share it on The HIListically Speaking Podcast with Hilary Russo? Fill out the guest form. If you are interested in early access to podcast guests, giveaways, speaking engagements and events with Hilary Pus, her powerful tips and tools to help you "be kind to your mind", Join the Thrive Hive. It's FREE! HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo Created/Hosted by Hilary Russo Produced by Alan Seales Music by Lipbone Redding Recorded on SquadCast Connect with Hilary Instagram: @HilaryRusso Twitter: @HilaryRusso Facebook: @HilaryRusso Website: www.hilaryrusso.com Connect with Alan Seales Listen to more music by Lipbone Redding