Forgiveness is something we do on our end. Usually we are good at determining when other people need to forgive instead of focusing on our own selves and forgiving. Certainly there are challenging situations where this may seem to be difficult, but start where you are and work your way up. Recognize that the Lord forgives you for every thing and so you focus on doing the same with the little things that annoy you when you are around others. Once you recognize this is a very important action you need to take you'll begin to see how it works with your Heavenly Father forgiving you. Quit making such a big deal out of things in your life that you seemingly think God will not forgive or perhaps you believe He will forgive, but He won't forget. Truth is, He actually does both Forgives and Forgets. This is a day to day lifestyle. Don't try to drag up old relationships that you feel you have to deal with first. Let them be for they are probably in the "Too Hard To Do Category" right now. Focus on the people that are nearest to you. Make yourself get into a Forgiving Routine. Its these little grudges that lead to the big ones. We feel forgiveness means compromise but that's not true or if we forgive we must do what ever someone says to us, but that's not true either. Forgiveness is what you do toward someone that has done something wrong toward you. Its not what others feel you have to do. Others have nothing to do with this. This is between you and the person that did something to you. Recognize the difference or you'll be running around doing what others want you to do and there will be no forgiveness anywhere. Forgiveness is what you have to decide to do yourself to show kindness to someone that has wronged you.