In this episode, Dr. Jan Canty, a psychologist, author, and podcast host, shares essential advice on recognizing and avoiding con artists in modern relationships. Dr. Canty, who experienced betrayal and tragedy in her life, offers insights into the red flags of deceptive individuals and provides practical tips for safeguarding against potential scams. Through her 'Don't Con Yourself' TikTok series, Dr. Canty breaks down each stage of interactions with con artists and how to protect oneself. She also discusses her life’s work in grief counseling, her compelling past, and the importance of trusting your gut feeling in relationships.Tune in to learn more about navigating the complexities of dating and protecting your personal boundaries.00:20 Jan Canty's Tragic Past01:05 Recognizing Con Artists04:34 Understanding Psychopaths and Sociopaths05:21 First Date Red Flags14:24 Trusting Your Gut Instinct16:09 CIA Techniques for Identifying Lies21:34 Gaslighting23:29 Dramatic and Unusual Histories25:10 Understanding the Significance of Tattoos28:26 The Importance of Personal Boundaries29:26 Dealing with Missed Warning Signs32:03 The Dangers of Sharing Personal Information Prematurely35:14 Early Attempts at Control in Relationships38:26 Preparing to Exit a Toxic Relationship46:08 Finding True Love After HardshipsPRETEND podcast featuring Jan Canty's life storyThe Sugar Daddy parts 1 & 2: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1jXDdZvO197GVomFLseUiq?si=35087f142efd41bdA Life Divided: A psychologist's memoir about the double life and murder of her husband - and her road to recoveryhttps://www.amazon.com/Life-Divided-psychologists-husband-recovery/dp/0578685922Domino Effect of Murder Podcasthttps://jancantyphd.com/podcast/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices