Most of you know I have 2 beautiful boys, but did you know I have had 7 pregnancies?  I'm fortunate to have had two healthy children regardless of the struggles I had to get them. I think families are made up of all different case scenarios, and children come to us in many, many ways. And I guess when we're young, we don't know what those ways are going to be. But it doesn't matter whether it's adoption, your own biological, sperm doner, or surrogate (just to name a few), when that child is put into your arms or comes into your home and becomes a part of your family; it makes no difference. They are your children.