Ben and Kami discuss their biggest idea of parenting. How you see kids will change everything about what you DO. What are the pros and cons about seeing children as a gift vs a project, how do you know which you are doing AND how do you change?  Selfish Reasons to Have more Kids: http://bit.ly/selfishkids Youtube Talk: http://bit.ly/2Kdl6eG Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our only financial support for projects comes via donations.   paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together FFT@crawfordlife.com RECORDED: April 4, 2019