If you love episodes where I gasp a lot, you're going to love this week's show! Now, I know you're not going to believe me when I say this, but the whole concept of cruising in bathrooms is totally foreign to me, and something that I thought it was high time I got a little lesson on.  So, luckily for me, Mat Hawley, from Mat Tales Podcast, dropped by to talk me through the basics.  And, I'm in good hands. His show, Mat Tales: 40 Years of Gay Adventures, is a show where he shares stories of his sexual experiences over the last 40 years... And, if he doesn't know about it then it's probably not worth knowing! We talk all about growing up in a small town, the fine art of fuck buddies, and learning to amalgamate both the vanilla and slutty sides of yourself. Do you have any memories of cruising, or clubbing from your own queer scene that you want to share? Well, if you have please get in touch - I want to create the biggest online record of people's memories and stories - go to www.lostspacespodcast.com and find the section 'Share a Lost Space' and tell me what you got up to! Bonus points for embarrassing photos! You can also find me on Facebook (www.facebook.com/lostspacespod), Instagram (www.instagram.com/lostspacespod) and Twitter (www.twitter.com/lostspacespod) Find out more about Mat Tales by following him on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/mattalesgayadventures), visiting his website (https://www.mattales.com/), or.... just listening to his show wherever you stream podcasts!