Today’s guest describes herself as Dr. Ruth meets Rihanna and the Walmart greeter of intimacy, and we’re so happy she’s welcomed us into the intimacy convo to discuss turn on triggers, fantasies, becoming a better dater, and just generally how we can maximize our pleasure potential. Kaitlyn and Shan are talking everything sex, intimacy, and dating, from what sex positivity even means to dating app red flags. The two are also answering questions from the Vinos that get into how to discuss sex and pleasure with your partner, self-pleasure, and using toys in the bedroom. Shan shares a confession relating to her own love life, and the two work on cracking the case of Pete Davidson… What is it about that guy that just does it for people? This is such a fun episode no matter what your love life looks like. If you’re looking to make connections, check out Bumble, and find Shan on Instagram @ShanBoody! CYRANO - Don’t miss CYRANO, only in movie theaters February 25th. Learn more at cyrano.movie.   PROGRESSIVE - Get a quote today at Progressive.com.  ADORE ME - Shop intimates now on AdoreMe.com.  JENNI KAYNE - Find your forever pieces at jennikayne.com and get 15% off your first order when you use code VINE at checkout.   OSEA - Get 10% off your first order with promo code VINE at OSEAmalibu.com.  HELIX - Helix is offering up to 200 dollars off all mattress orders AND two free pillows for my listeners at HelixSleep.com/vine.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.