Emily Anne is a BDSM Coach, Educator and Author originally from a farm town in the Pacific North West where her graduating class had only 40 people! In this episode we talk about: Sexy events bring people together New Yorkers and kinky people, we'll always find each other What it is to truly see someone Exploring erotic interiors The reality of working in sexuality, even when it's not sex work The great (horrible, misogynistic) instagram deplatforming and Arielle's pole dancing account being a part of that Privilege and sex education Teachers taking on Sex Ed, trying to make an extra buck When Sex Ed is all about your life ending one way or another Farm town frolicking and grown men talking about a teenage girl's hickey The Madonna Whore Complex… google it The immediate categorization of people when we date The goldmine you're sitting on in long term relationships How capitalism, patriarchy and racism ties into sexuality Wait, do birds and bees fuck? Growing up on a farm, animals are your first example of sex but no one talks about it Our shared experiences of overriding our instincts The domination of children and the impact on us as adults Power dynamics and Intimacy Coordinators Learning by fucking! How she became a BDSM coach Low key announcement, Birds & Bees Don't Fck Live comin' at ya Jan 3rd! Emily's Sex Pro tip! You can find Emily on Instagram at @thedomsubcoaches and her website https://www.thebdsmcoaches.com/ and www.thekinkfix.com If you're pickin' up what we're putting down please like, Subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! Submit a Sex Ed Pop Quiz question with a 5 star review and I'll give you a shout out! Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube! Want to help raise money for men's mental health, prostate and testicular cancer research? Great! Arielle is the Los Angeles host of the Distinguished Gentleman's Drive that just happened worldwide on Sunday September 24th. It's not too late to make a donation, simply visit https://www.gentlemansdrive.com/driver/BabesInClassics