The feeling of being in love is potent and one all of us enjoy, sustaining those first months of crazy love is challenging, a bit like stopping at one french fry. You don't reach 28 years in a relationship without a huge amount of work, struggles, a bathtub of tears and fair amount of pain… I hear you ask- why bother then?! Well, the upside is… you can learn deep love, forgiveness and then there’s the self-growth that can only be learned through the reflection of another. So, how do you keep a relationship together over time? ..believe us, we’re still figuring that out, but having your own bathroom works a treat and keeping romance alive is a winner too. We discuss some of what’s worked for us and most of what hasn’t.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.