How have you responded to what felt like catastrophic failures? How did you process not getting the job you applied for or seeing your business and efforts fall apart? What is the best way to respond when people you love doubt you will ever find success because of your past failures? In this Q & A, Tom breaks down how to reframe and learn from your failures by interrupting the wrong thoughts, and seeing what you can do better next time. He reveals exactly why having people you love doubt you can be the gift anyone can possibly offer you. Being mindful that failure is a lesson and not an experience to be tied to or defined by will help you embrace the gift of failure, which exists to help you acquire skills faster. Tom’s is sharing exactly how you can have mind blowing success and surpass everyone’s expectations, even your own.SHOW NOTES:Reacting | Respond to setbacks, negativity and failure with ‘Good’ [1:48]Do it Different | Tom breaks down the reason you can see failures and say ‘good’ [6:07]Assess Failure | This is how you assess failure and expose the flaws in your strategy [6:32]4 Steps | Tom lays out complete strategy to beat failure for the long-term game [7:17]Biological Experience | Understand your brain and learning to disrupt approach [9:58]Cognitive Behavioral Therapy | Tom explains the value of pattern interrupting [12:08]Reframing | Tom on how to reframe failed business venture entering job market [16:15]Hard Skills | Tom exposes why getting good at the hard things is necessary to win [17:14]Moving Forward | It takes doing what moves you toward your goal & reframing failure [22:21]3rd Door | Tom breaks down what it takes to find your path to the seemingly impossible [25:06]Belief in Yourself | How people’s doubt for you is a gift when you’re not good enough yet [35:03]Check out Jocko Willink’s excerpt on “Good”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdTMDpizis8Follow Tom Bilyeu:Website: https://impacttheory.com/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TomBilyeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/tombilyeuInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness. This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day.Subscription Benefits: Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement Money Mindset: Business & Finance Relationship Theory: Relationships Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJazSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices