Matthew 27:34-40

1. Loving ourselves means learning not to settle

-To whom have you given the power to decide how you should be loved? 

2. Loving ourselves moves us from duty to desire

3. Loving ourselves mean we move from roles to responsibility

Roles in our family system…

The Air Traffic Controller

The Accountant

The Noble Martyr

The Fixer

The Sheriff

The Enabler

The Narcissist

The Ghost

The Little Girl/Boy

The Bully

The Comedian

The Peacekeeper

The Problem Child

The Scapegoat

The Good Boy/Girl

The Helper

4. Loving yourself means you begin to regard yourself

Regard means “to have or show respect or concern for.” 

-regard….…..resentment…..…reward behavior